Asian-American churches have had somewhat of an identity crisis in
recent years, with most English-speaking congregations breaking off and
forming their own church. Others have remained within the
original immigrant church but have languished and many members have
left. This book examines many of the issues that the
second-generation congregations are dealing with.
The first issue to be tackled is grace. Many Asian-American
churches are not gracious in how they deal with sin in the leadership. It seems that often the sin is more important than working
through the sin and restoring the sinner to a proper relationship with
God and the church. Often the leader is just quietly removed and
must find a home at another, more gracious church. A healthier
approach is consistently invite people to a closer relationship with
God, rather than focusing on the sin. Discipline may need to be
involved, but Christ died for that sin, too.
As important as grace is, it is also important to teach the truth,
well and
effectively. The evangelical church tends to place such an
emphasis on truth that the truth becomes an end in itself. The
truth is not just a puzzle to be solved, but
should have an impact on our lives. Our churches should embody
the truth in our action. In fact, the is not just a
matter for individuals to decide and act on alone, although this is
important, but must be lived out in
the community as a whole. (The authors observe that an emphasis
on community is a strength of Asian culture in this respect.)
Having healthy leadership is essential to the health of the church. The leaders need to have good personal relationships with each
other, not just in a professional context. In some churches the
pastors eat together; others have activities like fishing or
bowling. The idea is that the members of the leadership team must
trust each other and value each other. One of the biggest issues
with leadership teams is how the team deals with conflicts. Generally Asian culture avoids conflict, but without
conflict, relationships cannot move deeper. While conflict is
uncomfortable, dealing with it healthily is essential. In fact,
unresolved conflict
has led to many of the Korean-American church splits. Because
this Asian tendency to avoid conflict, one of the
authors regularly preaches on the importance of conflict in his
sermons.
Another important aspect is change. Since the Christian life is
all about growth, change is inevitable and, in fact, desirable. However, most people resist change because it carries with it
risk. So corporate change cannot be done merely for change’s sake; the change must
be urgent, necessary, have a vision, and be appropriate. When
the time comes for the church to change in order to follow God’s
calling more effectively, the leadership will need to spend time
motivating the change. As cultivating change is done regularly, the church
will develop a culture that is open to change.
Evangelism was discussed mostly in the context of serving others—meet
the felt needs of others instead of just their spiritual needs. Ministries like helping the poor, feeding the hungry, and
promoting social justice demonstrate God’s character (in fact, a large
amount of the Bible is devoted to showing how much God values this). The authors also recommend treating local evangelism like foreign
missions: learn the culture of the area, the values, and the
needs. Meet the needs in God’s name and teach the Gospel as the
opportunity arises.
Since most Asian-American churches were started by first-generation
immigrants several decades ago, many now have an English-speaking
congregation and an Asian-speaking congregation. Often the two do
not get along, partly due to an insistence on Asian hierarchy that they
second-generation congregation has not adopted. Failure to
resolve conflict generally leads to the second-generation congregation
becoming a separate church. However, the two congregations can
have harmonious relationships if they put themselves in positions to
understand each other. One example described a Korean church
where some of the older and younger generation went on a medial
missions trip together. Since they had a common goal of healing
the sick, they learned to work together, and during their other times
they learned that both generations truly loved and worshiped God, but
just had different ways of expressing it. Through continued
events like this the congregations grew to respect and appreciate each
other.
Asian-American churches often do not have places for women to serve
based on a view that women should be caretakers of children and
subordinate to men, a view that the authors claim arose from Asian
culture. As a result, many women who would like to serve in other
areas simply cannot and leave for other churches. Furthermore,
Asian culture values passivity and submission in women, so women raised
in an American culture to be assertive and competent are often not
valued in Asian churches, leading to still more problems. The
authors do not discuss the issue of women in leadership beyond this
except to say that until the 1930s the evangelical churches ordained
women, to reference some respected theological arguments that suggest
women leaders is compatible with Biblical teaching, and to suggest that
churches take time to study the issue.
There were several things that seemed particularly relevant to the church I attend,
Austin Chinese Church. One of the most important is from the introduction: churches have both an explicit theology which is stated in the
preaching/teaching and an implicit theology which is revealed by what
the church does. Often they do not match. In our case, we say we value life
transformation through God’s work in our lives, yet the sermons,
teaching, and church programs often have not seemed to work toward
this. Our leadership team is identifying the key aspects of
God’s calling for us, which will give a framework to ensure that the
what we say we value matches our actions.
Another point that resonated with me is the assertion that
Asian-Americans often do not know how to build healthy relationships. The authors claim that is partly because of unhealthy
relationships in Asian families, partly because of unbiblical Asian
rigid hierarchy, partly because of a lack of openness, transparency,
and realness due to a desire to save face. However, I have
personally been in the position of having no clue what healthy
relationships look like (and even worse, not even realizing it). So while I the authors identify legitimate causes, unhealthy
relationships is hardly just an Asian problem, but endemic to American
culture (witness the high divorce rate, depression rate, and
loneliness/suicide rate) and perhaps to mankind in general. I
appreciate the authors drawing attention to this issue. I have
usually only heard churches talk about relationships in the context of
dating and marriage, but in my personal experience, I think I became
much more effective at reflecting God when I realized that the goal of
life is not to seek my satisfaction. The more I relate to others
in the unselfish, giving way that God relates to me, the more my
relationships blossom and are effective. The authors repeatedly
address this point of having healthy relationships, and it is important
in building a healthy congregation.
As a budding leader, the second chapter on leadership gave words to my
emerging thinking. Leadership is primarily characterized by
vision. Without vision the congregation merely maintains what is
there. Great leaders seek to implement God’s vision of what could
be. However, this vision cannot be realized unless the leadership
team is unified. I had the opportunity to work on a small team
with our singles fellowship where all three of us shared the same
vision and values and could usually speak for each other if needed. We were effective and had a good time doing it. For a
larger team, getting to know each other and learning to trust each
other is probably required in order that a unified vision can result. As the authors say, this takes time and will probably require
conflict resolution to get to that point, but once there, the team will
be effective.
I also think that the authors’ minor point of the need for leaders to
share their struggles (“be real”) and show that they are not perfect
Christians is important. Without this, it is easy for leaders to
come across as having it all together and with the result that people
perceive a gulf between themselves and the leaders that demotivates
change . Furthermore, it isolates leaders from the community that
can be created by through compassion for each other’s failings and the
desire to see our brothers and sisters overcome their sins. If
the leaders demonstrate that it is safe to be real, hopefully the
congregation as a whole will be encouraged to do so, too. I
suspect this realness is an important aspect of Christian community
(perhaps this is why Jesus said to confess to each other). And if
we can demonstrate a community that is safe to be unwhole in, I imagine
that it will be incredibly attractive to a world that may not even
consciously realize its brokenness.
The problems the authors identify are real, and I can see some of them
in my church (and I can see the lack of some of them, too!). However, much of what the book assumes to be a Asian-American
problem is really
a problem throughout evangelical churches. For instance, the
ungracious handling of sin. Many evangelical churches place an
importance on not having sin (after all, we preach that it is bad), so
while it may be more prominent in Asian culture, it is certainly alive
in American culture as well. The book also seems to take a rather
post-modern approach to the solutions. Post-modernism is partly a
reaction to the failings of modernism and the authors seem to have a
similar reactionary approach. Rather than identifying what a
church should be, they tend to point out what the problems are and how
not to have them.
The writing is a little hard to get through. It often feels like
the authors use a more formal language simply because it seems more
scholarly. No surprise here; the scholarly academic papers
do the same thing, and are notoriously hard to read. Unfortunately, the reader has a similar reaction to slogging
through unnecessary verbiage, which is exacerbated by the (correct)
feeling that the book was written by a committee. Nevertheless,
the book is well organized, has good content, and is reasonably
effective at communicating it. I think my church’s leadership
team has benefited from reading it (at least, I have). It raises
most, if not all, of the pertinate issues facing the Asian-American,
and, likely, the evangelical, church. It is probably not a
hundred-year book, as it does not identify the issues with the clarity
of insight required for a timeless discussion (it feels more like a
shotgun). However, the authors do fulfill their goal of
identifying the areas Asian-American churches need to grow. Unless leaders of Asian-American—and evangelical—churches can
clearly articulate the failings of their own church, reading
Growing Healthy Asian-American Churches will serve them well.
Review: 8.5
Content is good, but seems a bit like
an attempt to list all the issues. I think the book would be
improved by crystallizing the essence of the problems. The
problems seem to focus around unhealthy relationships, leadership,
grace, compassion for the poor, and community (gender/age). It
would be interesting to see if the failings in these areas are at all
related, and if so to identify the sins, values, or world views that
contribute to the problem. Such a book, while relevant to
Asian-Americans, would be more timeless, since our the causes of our
failings do not really change, although the manifestations of them
will. Although this is a useful book, the ranking is lower due to
the committee feel to the book and the failure to distill the problems
into their essence.
- Introduction
- Struggles within Asian-American churches mirror the struggles of second-generation Asian-Americans asking “who am I?”
- Churches have explicit theology (what is preached) and implicit theology (what is lived).
- People are most influenced by implicit theology.
- Implicit theology is heavily influenced by the ethnic culture of the church, which may not be Biblical.
- Chapter 1: Grace-Filled Households
- When leaders in the Asian-American church fall, so often they
are quietly removed and no one really knows what happened. This
is not gracious (but does preserve the outward appearance of holiness).
- God’s grace is outrageous. It offended the older brother,
who instead of rejoicing in his father’s generosity to everyone,
believed that hard work should be rewarded (and vice-versa).
- Ex. of grace: pastor gets divorced, resigns. Finds
a secular job and a gracious church. Joins a small group, becomes
active, serves behind the scenes, meets with pastors periodically for
counseling. Is invited to lead a small group. When a
pastoral position becomes available, he is encouraged to take it.
- Asian-American churches primarily value hierarchy (security in
order), community and family (identity in the collective, instead of as
an individual), education and achievement, conformity and humility,
respect for tradition and elders
- Gracious relationships invite people to a closer relationship with God, rather than point out their failings
- Ex. An unmarried couple with a long-standing and stable
relationship begins attending the church. Do you address the
issue of immorality somehow? This church never addressed it
directly, but simply encouraged them to get married whenever the issue
arose. When they did get married it was a celebration of devotion
to God.
- Chapter 2: Truth-Embodying Households
- Many Asian-American churches a doing a good job of being
Biblical, relevant, reaching their target audience, serving the
congregation’s needs, etc. However, it often comes at the expense
of daily living God’s truth. [I take this to mean that meeting people’s needs, for instance,
is good, but if we ignore the sin behind it, we aren’t living with
God’s truth. Jesus met people’s needs and confronted sin.]
- There has been emphasis on spiritual formation in American Protestantism, but often drifting away from sound theology.
- Mainline churches tend to view ethnic churches as a nuisance,
and [the first-generation] tends to see Asian-American churches as
quickening integration and the loss of culture.
- Ethnic ministries and contextualization have been important
elements in missionary work (and in the American church, until recently)
- Western Christianity has tended to view our life as a Christian
as an individual, yet the church is also Christ’s body, and more than
just a collection of like-minded individuals.
- [Evangelical] sacrements [of baptism and the Lord’s supper] can
be celebrated together. Cites the Scot’s practice of communion,
where the elements are received sitting around a table, as in a family.
- “[Many seminary graduates] think that when they graduate from seminary, they’re done with theological
education. They then go into ministry thinking that theology is
to be left in a seminary for theologians to write about and teach. They think they are done with theology—they’ve passed their
exams and their ordination exam—and now theology doesn’t matter. It’s almost the end of theological reflections. And it
concerns me that churches are being guided by theologically
unreflective pastors and leaders.” (p. 48)
- Just because it worked for another church doesn’t mean it’s Biblical or that it is a good idea for this church.
- “I’ve seen too many congregations that are solidly committed to
right doctrine, doctrinal purity. They know all the doctrine, but
it makes no difference in their practical lives. If their
marriages are a wreck, or whatever the challenges happen to be, the
right doctrine has no impact in their lives.” (p. 51)
- We tend to look at the Bible as a puzzle to be solved through scientific examination of the text.
- Two errors: use inductive study and come up with 3
points, but be devoid of impact; or go to the other extreme and
treat the Bible as a group of stories.
- “The Bibles have been given to the church, are read, preached,
heard and comprehended within the community of the church [as opposed
to individually], and are safely interpreted only by those whose
character is continually being formed by prayer, worship, meditation,
self-examination, confession, and other means by which Christ’s grace
is communicated to his body.” (p. 56)
- Chapter 3: Healthy Leaders, Healthy Households 1
- Asian-American churches tend to view leadership through a
Confucian set of values: hierarchy, saving face, and harmonious
relations with people.
- Asians tend to defer to elders, and women defer to men. Sometimes Asians defer too much and do not confront sin in their
leaders when it is necessary. Leaders may also expect deferring,
which is not Biblical—Christian leaders are to be the servants of all.
- “When we consciously remember that we are shepherds, we
remain humble. But when we start thinking of ourselves as
leaders, humility tends to evaporate—sometimes along with the
ministry.” (p. 62)
- False humility is refusing to accept a position you know you
are qualified for, or not offering opinions in order to avoid conflict
or embarrassment.
- Asian women have a particular challenge, since culturally the
good woman is nice and kind. However, sometimes true humility
requires being assertive (Jesus drove the merchants out of the temple).
- “We feel guilty for what we do. We feel shame for what we are.” (p. 66) Losing face is feeling like you did not measure up to other peoples’ expectations of you.
- The desire to not make trouble prevents a lot of conflict from
being resolved. In fact, the prevalence of church splits among
Korean-American churches is largely due to the inability to resolve
conflict.
- Example of Moses: Moses was bi-cultural (Hebrew raised as
an Egyptian), a reluctant leader, humility to receive negative feedback
(e.g. from Jethro concerning his leadership), and faithfulness despite
the Israelites’ repeated rejection of his leadership and God’s.
- Example of Jesus: He was a servant, spoke the truth, and had a vision of what would happen far beyond just his time.
- Example of speaking the truth: Part-time staff worker
had an affair. Instead of just announcing her leave of
absence without explaining it, like everything told him to do, he
explained what had happened (with her permission) and asked for prayer
for her.
- Potential good book; Leadership is an Art, by Max DePree.
- Chapter 4: Healthy Leaders, Healthy Households 2
- Building healthy leadership teams involves
- choosing the right people and getting them in the right
roles. It is better to not fill a position than to fill it with
someone who is not ready for leadership.
- This involves constant maintenance, because people change and their old role may no longer be where they need to be
- building trust between leaders.
- this takes a lot of time, but is essential. The pastor needs to invest in his lay-leadership.
- resolving conflict quickly and healthily
- Not resolving conflict is the biggest thing that destroys churches.
- Recommends talking about conflict frequently in order to instill the idea that conflict is normal and ok.
- Some practical guidelines of when to talk to someone: you can’t shake a bad feeling about them after 24 hrs, you can’t
look them in the eye, you don’t want to touch them.
- Conflict is a sign that you are getting to the last 10% of
a relationship, where things about the other person bother you. It is also a sign that the team (or relationship) is growing.
- Vision is created by God, not by us. It is essential (“without vision, the people perish”)
- “Our goal is not to maintain unity. Our goal is to move
under the headship of Christ. Unity is simply the gift he gives
us when we find his mind.” (p. 91)
- When leadership receives the vision from God, we need to
build consensus for it in the congregation. This requires
communicating it in a way that they can understand, and may require
leadership modeling it, guest speakers, field trips, seminars, book
reading, etc. You want to get the congregation to buy into the
vision.
- Important leadership values
- Having a balanced life: “Killing oneself and one’s
family in the name of ministry is never helping anybody.” (p. 93)
First-generation leaders often gave too much to the ministry. Make sure you and your leadership team do not over commit or burn
out (especially problematic in church plants, where there is so much to
do). There is always more that can be done, but we need to let
God worry about that.
- Demonstrating vulnerability: People want to see you be
real. Be vulnerable about how you are struggling (for example, in
sermon illustrations or topics).
- Vulnerability needs to start with the leaders.
- People in this post-modern culture want to see leaders who are real
- Valuing team ministry
- Recognizing God’s leadership
- Henri Nouwen: “I am getting in touch with the mystery that leadership, for a large part, means to be led.” (p. 97)
- “People pleasing is lethal in ministry. ... The way to combat that is to invest more time in God.” (p. 97)
- Building a healthy house is not the same as a healthy household. A healthy house is an orderly and attractive worship service,
programs, people tithing and serving regularly, etc. A healthy
household is a church where people have healthy relationships with each
other and God.
- Chapter 5: Trusting Households
- People don’t want to change. We prefer to die the slow death of inaction rather than take the risk of failure.
- The Christian life is all about change: repentance, growth, etc. are all about us being changed.
- Change within the church requires that the church trust the leaders.
- We need to be discerning about the need for change.
- Some examples: pastor of Korean Orthodox Presbyterian
Church recognized that the name brought serious limitations on who
would come. A homeless man living in one church’s shed brought to
light the need to be conscious about social welfare and justice. Reaching the limit of space and seeing the growth slow and
decline, as well as the congregation become comfortable showed another
church the need to split into two churches.
- “The genuine health of a congregation is not primarily
evaluated on the basis of what it accomplishes or how much it
achieves, but more so on who they are becoming and how they feel about
that transformational process and about their community.” (p. 112)
- “Learning provokes change.” (p. 115)
- As we learn more of God’s values, we will be induced to change. If we are learning, we will be less resistant to change.
- Change starts from the top: the pastor must be learning.
- Change needs to have urgency (or people won’t risk it), a
definite need, a compelling vision, and be appropriate for the
maturity and needs of the congregation.
- Cultivating a culture that is willing to change requires
- Understanding what God’s purpose for them is—what is it they they can uniquely do?
- Have sufficient time to cultivate the desire and willingness for change
- Chapter 6: Hospitable Households
- Because of Asian-American community values, Asian-Americans
tend to be more oriented towards one-on-one evangelism, rather than
large meetings. (Which also happens to be what today’s
post-modern culture prefers, too.)
- Asian-Americans generally find out about church from the
Asian-American grapevine, not marketing-type advertising (e.g.
newspaper ads, etc.)
- “Such an [one-on-one] approach resonates more comfortably
with many Asian American personalities because it is less about
confrontation and more about building trust and connections over time. ‘We had to be willing to re-examine the way we’ve traditionally
done evangelism,’ says Ogimachi. ‘Evangelism isn’t going to work
due to a big marketing push; it is going to be through people who
know people. It’s very much a process that could take people
months or years to come to Christ.’” (p. 130)
- Incarnational evangelism: “The best evangelism should
be from people who know you as friends. Some of the best
evangelism is done where people don’t see faith as a lofty idea but
where it’s lived out in real world situations. So incarnational
evangelism is about living in the culture, embracing the culture,
knowing the culture, knowing the language and values of the culture.” (p. 130 from Gibbons)
- “Too many [evangelistic] programs or approaches do not afford
the unconvinced much dignity, because they do not allow them enough
room to let a relationship with Christ emerge gradually and naturally.” (p. 131, from Ken Fong)
- “When I see a church doing well, it’s highly invested in its
community, either the one that surrounds them or the one they choose to
get into. They are involved in the schools, the sports leagues,
tutoring, everything. That’s where I see a church’s healthiness
come out, when its people are invested in the neighborhood around
them.” (p. 131, from Greg Yee)
- Asian-Americans value relationships, but do not tend to know how to build healthy relationships
- This partly due to unhealthy family relationships
- Partly due to fear of conflict—seeing conflict as bad, rather than natural
- Partly from not being transparent because of a fear of shame or loss of face from publicly revealing how messed up they are.
- “To truly understand God’s love you will have to think of
yourself as a spiritual orphan and of God as a loving father intent on
adopting as many orphaned children as possible into his family.” (p. 128, from Ken Fong)
- A focus on community can lead to an insider/outsider mentality, which was not God’s intention
- Sometimes Asian-Americans appear cliquish not because that
don’t want to relate to people, but because they often do not know how
to relate to someone they do not know.
- Jesus met felt needs as way of opening people’s hearts, yet we
tend to view evangelism as solely a spiritual matter a la Four
Spiritual Laws.
- People need to see us ministering to the widows and orphans of our day
- Having teaching on healthy relationships is one way of
meeting felt-needs, or (relational-) healing ministries. There
are lot of people who have abusive parents or addiction or brokenness.
- Ways some healthy Asian-American churches are evangelizing:
- Viewing it as a missions field: when you become a
missionary, you spend a lot of time immersing yourself in the culture,
finding its values, learning its language, etc. What is important
to the people of our area?
- Understanding the influence of post-modernism:
- “Experience comes before explanation”: “We are trying
to invite people into an environment where they can taste and see what
new life in Christ is all about. It’s not just a rational,
cognitive message. People often do need to experience before they
can decide.” (p. 136)
- “Belonging comes before believing”: “Most people do
not ‘decide’ to believe. In community, they ‘discover’ that they
believe.” (p. 136)
- “Images comes before word”: recognizing that our
culture is now a visual culture (because of television and movies). Not that this should replace the Bible, but is a way of
illustrating it.
- Social justice: “Who are the widows and orphans in your
neighborhood [or the neighborhoods where your members live]? Your
church has to be known for serving them.” (p. 137)
- One church cleaned up people’s yards, alleyways, painted
rooms and fences, trimmed bushes, etc. on a Sunday. One person
expressed surprise that a church would do this on a Sunday!
- Pursue healthy relationships: let your congregation
know your struggles. Be real with them. “We want the norm
in our church to be acknowledging and admitting that we’re screwed up.” (p. 139, Gibbons)
- Have a good-quality, enjoyable worship service.
- Embrace diversity when it presents itself
- Don’t abandon traditional evangelism. (For example, altar-calls or altar-call-by-raising-your-hand)
- Chapter 7: Multigenerational Households
- Paul describes the church as the household of God in Ephesians. In a family we don’t get to pick our siblings or children. Likewise, the Church isn’t a supermarket where you find the
congregation that best fits your needs.
- There is often conflict between generations in ethnic Asian
churches because the older generation insists that the younger needs to
honor and obey them, yet the younger generation has incorporated
American egalitarian values.
- This often leads to the younger congregation splitting off and becoming its own church
- Healthy Asian churches need to promote healthy intergenerational relationships
- This starts with the pastoral staff: the staff needs to build strong relationships.
- Some ways of doing this are doing sports together, joint outings, sharing meals
- Description of Open Door Presbyterian Church, whose two
congregations had been growing apart, but made the conscious move to be
more interdependent. This started with joint services for
important events (Easter, baptisms, etc.). The English
congregation saw the need for care for disabled children, both
congregations thought it was a great idea and the English congregation
lead the project, which involved the older generation serving, too. They did a joint missions trip to Gambia and discovered that
serving together brought the generations together and showed the
younger generation that the older generation loved to Lord and showed
the older generation that they could respect the younger generation’s
skills and talents.
- Chapter 8: Gender Relations in Healthy Households
- Asian culture treats women as inferior to men. Jobs like
washing the dishes and helping with kids are seen as women’s jobs and
sometimes men who want to help out in those areas are belittled.
- Until the 1930s many conservative denominations, including the
Evangelical Free Churchs and some Baptists, ordained women pastors. This probably stopped as a reaction to the rise of feminism.
- Paul’s writings indicate that many women were serving in
leadership. Indeed, Gal 3:28 says that there is not distinction
between slave and free, Jew and Gentile, and male and female.
- The questions that the post-modern generation is asking concern
why the Church acts like it does: why does the Church impose its
views on others, enforce a hierarchical patriarchy, etc. (In the
past, people asked theological questions about God: does He
exist, was Jesus really resurrected, etc.)
- Women tend to leave Asian-American churches more than men,
likely because if they have been raised to be assertive, competent, and
independent, they won’t find much of a home at a church that expects
them to be passive and subservient.
- Churches need to study this issue; there are some
compelling theological interpretations that would encourage women in
leadership
- The pastoral team needs to set the example in encouraging women
leaders and treating them with respect (including using their title; i.e. Rev., or Pastor).
- The Bible treats men and women as equals. Do our churches?
- Chapter 9: Households of Mercy and Justice
- The poor is the second most prominent theme in the Old
Testament. One out of every ten verses in the Gospels are about
the poor.
- Need to educate the congregation and also instill mercy and justice into the values of the church
- It might be easier to start with ministering to the needy
people within the church: elderly, single-parent moms, etc. Once people see the need there, they may begin seeing needs
outside the church, too.
- Immigrant churches already provide a lot of services to the immigrant community, which is a natural means of outreach.
- Before beginning a ministry in an urban poor area, it is wise
to talk to key leaders in the community to find out the areas of need
so as to not undermine the work of churches already in the area.