I was introduced to
The Discipline
of Grace as a book on the necessity of preaching the Gospel to
ourselves every day. As an Evangelical Christian I have a tendency to
think of the Gospel as relevant only in the context of Salvation, and
that afterward we leave milk for solid food. However, Jerry
Bridges
convincingly asserts that we need the Gospel not only for Salvation,
but every day, because Salvation is the center of the Christian
life. His constant refrain, repeated throughout the book, is that
we need to preach the Gospel to ourselves every day.
Bridges begins with asking whether we would be more likely to work
through a meeting with an interested non-Christian if we had had a good
spiritual day (e.g. we had a good meeting with God during our morning
quiet time, felt His presence through the day, etc.) or if the day had
gone badly from a spiritual perspective. The answer is that the
question is irrelevant, because God’s relationship with us is not based
on performance. He finds that within the Evangelical Church there
is a feeling that the Gospel is to save people and that, once saved,
they need discipleship to grow spiritually. This is true, but the
Gospel cannot be put on a shelf after salvation, or we slowly find
ourselves drifting into a performance-based relationship with
God. Since we both have a desire to be holy as God is holy, and
know that God, indeed, demands it, the fact that we still sin gives us
the vague feeling that God is displeased with us. Without
reminding ourselves that God has forgiven yesterday’s, today’s, and
tomorrow’s sin through our acceptance of Jesus’ death as payment, we
forget that our relationship with God is now based on love. God
may be grieved by our sin, but he is no longer angry with us. Every day, though, we still sin, and every day our conscience condemns
us on that basis. But we are no longer condemned by God, so we
need to remind ourselves and our consciences that our sin is
forgiven. We need to preach the Gospel to ourselves every day.
Having established this important point, Bridges then considers the
implication of this grace that we are preaching to ourselves. Grace is essential, but equally important is discipleship. God
does call us to stop sinning, to learn to be gracious and generous to
others, to grow in holiness, and we cannot neglect this command. Ultimately God wants us to have the same character as He does; the rest of our Christian life must be spent effecting this
transformation with His help. There are, though, some guidelines
that will help us.
First we need to obey the greatest command—loving God with all our
heart, mind, and soul. Loving God involves obeying Him. We
cannot practice “cruise-control” obedience and merely stop doing all
the obvious sins. However, obedience cannot be done out of duty,
but only because of our love for God. For one thing, we will not
be motivated enough by duty, but if we love Him, we will be much more
willing to spend the effort to obey. Since we are thoroughly
corrupted with self-centeredness, increasing obedience involves
changing to become more like God. This is something that we both
depend on God to accomplish, but need to work on ourselves. God
changes our heart, be we change our actions.
Our pursuit of holiness should be marked by several areas of
discipline. This is not discipline in the formal, fasting, daily
quiet time sense, but a habitual consideration of these areas. For instance, we need to be committed to the pursuit of holiness, or
there will be a strong temptation to abandon it. Furthermore, we
must commit to not only the obeying negative prohibitions, “don’t
steal,” “don’t lie,” “don’t gossip,” but the positive ones as
well: “be generous,” “love one another”.
Likewise, we need to carefully consider our convictions, as convictions
drive our actions. We will get our convictions from somewhere,
either from the society we live in or from God’s Word. We are
immersed in a society opposed, as all societies are, to God’s values,
so there is a very strong pressure to conform to its values. Bridges observes that Christians are generally only about a decade
behind in accepting societal norms. So unless we actively take
our values from God’s Word, we will inevitably take them from the world
around us. And as we discover areas where we have the wrong
values, we preach ourselves the Gospel to remind us that that sin has
been paid so that God can love us.
These convictions must be habitually enshrined in the little choices
that we make every day, for our choices ultimately determine our
character. Each choice to disobey weakens our ability to
obey; each choice to obey strengths that ability. We must
constantly watch over choices so that they lead toward holiness. This is painful, as it essentially involves denying our desires where
they do not match God’s values. Inevitably we will need to remind
ourselves that Jesus died for our failure to deny those desires, and
that God does not hold them against us.
We should be attentive not only to our choices, but to our weaknesses,
too. The world exerts a constant pressure to conform to its
values, rather than to God’s, and occasionally the Devil will try to
catch us off guard, but by far the strongest source of temptation is
ourselves. We are fundamentally rebellious, at least until God
gives us new bodies, and this rebellion is constantly seeking a means
of expressing itself. The Lord’s prayer includes the phrase “lead
us not into a temptation” as a recommendation that we ask God to
divinely keep us from temptation, but He will not eliminate it from our
lives, so we also need to be alert for possible sources of
temptation. We know our weaknesses and we can use this knowledge
to help avoid temptation in problem areas.
Finally, we need to have a correct understanding of adversity. Adversity is ultimately what creates Christ-like character; without the opportunity to refrain from sin and to love sacrificially,
our holiness is just intention. It is the practice of holiness
that changes our character and adversity is the means that God uses to
accomplish this. Bridges would include very minor hardships
(oversleeping, stuck in traffic, etc.) as well as obviously major
adversities in this category. But it is the severe hardships that
test us the most, and are most likely to cause us to feel that God is
angry with us. He is not angry with us; Jesus’ death and
our trust in it removes that anger. Instead, hardships are
ordained to strengthen our character. Of course, some hardships
may be consequences of our sin, but nonetheless God’s purpose is not
that we endure them but that we strengthen our character through them.
Bridges has a keen eye for observation. Anyone who has spent time
in the Evangelical church can appreciate such pithy phrases as
“cruise-control Christians” and “morality by consensus,” for who of us
cannot immediately identify this in part of our lives? In fact,
these succinct descriptions of the contemporary Christian culture are
the major strength of the book, as they are not said in condemnation
but to motivate readers to something better. Much of the
latter half of the book is exhortations that practicing Christians have
already heard in various forms, but Bridges describes the problem so
aptly that
readers cannot help but recognize it in themselves. Unable to
ignore the charge, we are compelled to listen to his solution more
attentively than if the attitudes are less easily recognizable as our
own.
The Discipline of Grace is a
very practical, very relevant book. Bridges’ informal style is
quite easy to read and his characterizations of Christian culture are
both funny and convicting. I suspect that the first part of the
book, about
the necessity of preaching the Gospel to yourself every day, will be
more helpful than the second part on disciplines, simply because, as he
points out, the church tends to focus on the process of
sanctification so readers are likely to already be somewhat familiar
with this material. Despite the excellent content, the informal
style
allows some wandering to creep in, particularly in the second
half. The Christian life is never easy to describe without
lapsing into Christianese and Bridges does an excellent job of
presenting in a fresh light, but the content would be more compelling
if the flow were tightened up. Without his poignant observations,
the second section would have little to offer that has not already been
said elsewhere. And because of the cultural relevancy, I suspect
that the staying power of this book is somewhat limited: when the
Christian culture changes, the observations will be less
relevant. While Bridges clearly has a deep theological
understanding of the issues, the theology-lite presentation (which, for
its part, is excellently done) is not likely to be compelling for
readers of the next century. Still, the first part is quite
apropos to contemporary Christian
culture and with compelling insights into contemporary Christian
psychology every few pages,
The
Discipline of Grace will fully deserves its Gold Medallion Book
Award.
Review: 9.2
Writing is about an 8, but the content,
particularly the insights into contemporary Christian, which are
superbly worded, pushes it up. Concepts could be presented with
more clarity, although since the book appears to be written more to
persuade than to convince, the lack of clear argumentative flow may be
understandable. While I suspect that it lacks the timelessness
imparted by convincing arguments and a certain cultural independence,
it is, in any case, an excellent book for the modern reader. I
suspect many readers will be helped significantly by his explanation of
the need to preach the Gospel to yourself every day. I
also think it would be hard to read more than, at most, two chapters
without
being convicted of something, and, perhaps more importantly, motivated
to diligently pursue holiness.
- Chapter 1: How Good is Good Enough?
- “At the same time, however, the pursuit of holiness must be
anchored in the grace of God; otherwise it is doomed to
failure. (12)
- Suppose you had a great spiritual day: good quite time,
peace of God through the day, everything works well. Suppose you
had a lousy spiritual day: overslept, missed quiet time, things
just keep going badly. If you met a non-Christian who was
sincerely interested at the end of each of those days, which do you
think God would be more bless your sharing of the Gospel? Answer: God’s blessing is independent of our spiritual
performance.
- Christians generally think of the Gospel as a leading to
salvation, and discipleship as afterwards.
- We tend to focus on our spiritual performance. Either we
focus on external performance and become like the Pharisees, or we
realize that we don’t measure up to what God wants (or even other
people appear to achieve). We need to apply the gospel to our
hearts every day: “with the assurance of total forgiveness
through Christ, we have no reason to hide from our sins anymore.” (23)
- “A sense of obligation and duty never stimulates [a desire to
know Christ more intimately welling up] within us. Only love does
that.” (25)
- Chapter 2: The Pharisee and the Tax Collector
- “Christians tend toward one of two opposite attitudes. The
first is a relentless sense of guilt due to unmet expectations in
living the Christian life. ... The other attitude is one of
varying degrees of self-satisfaction with one’s Christian life. We can drift into this attitude because we are convinced we believe the
right doctrines, we read the right Christian books, we practice the
right disciplines of a committed Christian life, or we are actively
involved in some aspect of Christian ministry and are not just
‘pew-sitters’ in the church.
Perhaps we have become self-righteous about our Christian lives
because we look at society around us and see flagrant immorality,
pervasive dishonesty, wholesale greed, and increasing violence. We see growing acceptance of abortion as a ‘right’ and homosexuality as
an acceptable alternate lifestyle. Because we are not guilty of
these more gross forms of sin, we can begin to feel rather good about
our Christian lives.” (30-31)
- “A large part of our problem as evangelical believers is that
we have defined sin in its more obvious forms—forms of which we are
not guilty. ... Most often our sin problem is in the area I called
‘refined’ sins. These are the sins of nice people, sins that we
can regularly commit and still retain our positions as elders, deacons,
Sunday School teachers, Bible study leaders, and yes, even full-time
Christian workers.” (32) (For example, judging others,
gossip, criticism, “resentment, bitterness, unforgiveness, impatience,
and irritability.” (35))
- Humility has about 40 references in the New Testament; the evangelical church tends not to focus on becoming more humble.
- “The problem with self-righteousness is that it seems almost
impossible to recognize in ourselves. ... When we have this
attitude, though, we deprive ourselves of the joy of living in the
grace of God. Because, you see, grace is only for sinners.” (39-40)
- We are both saints and sinners at the same time. While we
are saints in Christ, we remain sinners ourselves, and we need a
healthy understanding that we are sinners.
- Chapter 3: Preach the Gospel to Yourself
- “I believe that part of the problem [of evangelicals not
understanding the gospel] is our tendency to give an unbeliever just
enough of the gospel to get him or her to pray a prayer to receive
Christ. Then we immediately put the gospel on the shelf, so to
speak, and go on to the duties of discipleship.” (46)
- God demands 100% obedience; we cannot earn our way to
Him. “Yet in our everyday relationship with God, most of use are
no different in our thinking than the unbelievers who think they will
go to Heaven because they’ve been good enough. To live by grace,
we must rid ourselves of such thinking.” (48)
- Jesus died for us so that we could be righteous even though we
cannot achieve it ourselves. “This standing in Christ’s
righteousness is never affected to any degree by our good-day or
bad-day performance. Unless we learn to live daily by faith in
(that is, by reliance on His righteousness, however, our perception of our standing before
God will vary...” (50)
- Christ’s righteousness is available to everyone, regardless of
how much or (comparatively) little they have sinned. (We have all
failed the test; it doesn’t matter how much we failed by)
- This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ
to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and
fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace
through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented
him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. (Romans 3:22-25)
- “When we trust in Christ for salvation, God’s court is forever
satisfied. Never again will a charge of guilt be brought against
us in Heaven. Our consciences, however, are continually
pronouncing us guilty. That is the function of conscience. Therefore, we must by faith bring the verdict of conscience into line
with the verdict of Heaven. We do this by agreeing with our
conscience about our guilt, but then reminding it that our guilt has
already been borne by Christ.” (54)
- “To preach the gospel to yourself, then, means that you
continually face up to your own sinfulness and then flee to Jesus
through faith in His shed blood and righteous life. It means that
you appropriate, again by faith, the fact that Jesus fully satisfied
the law of God, that He is your propitiation, and that God’s holy wrath
is no longer directed toward you.” (58)
- “When you set yourself to seriously pursue holiness, you will
begin to realize what an awful sinner you are. And if you are not
firmly rooted in the gospel and have not learned to preach it to
yourself every day, you will soon become discouraged and will slack off
in your pursuit of holiness.” (60)
- Chapter 4: We Died to Sin
- “The first thing we note about Paul’s statement that we died to
sin is that this death has already occurred in the past. It is
not something we should do but something we have already done. Every person in this world who is a true believer has died to
sin. We are not to ‘die more and more unto sin.’ We cannot
possibly die to sin any more than we have. ... A second
observation ... is that this death occurred even though the believer
may
not be aware of it. Our awareness or understanding of a fact like
this does not make it any more true, but it does determine how we
respond to and apply the fact.” (64)
- We died to sin through Christ; he was our legal
representative before God, so whatever he did, we (legally) did. Christ was our power of attorney. As such, we were delivered both
to sin’s penalty and sin’s dominion over us.
- “We speak of the total depravity of a person who is outside of
Christ. We do not mean the person is as wicked as he or she can
possibly be, but that sin has corrupted the person’s entire
being.” (69)
- How are we no longer under sin’s dominion when we will sin for
the rest of our lives? “The believer who has died to sin’s reign
and dominion delights in God’s law. The believer approves of it
as holy, righteous, and good (Romans 7:12), even though he or she may
struggle to obey it.” (70)
- We are also alive in God (vine-and-branches-type alive) and God
is alive in us through the Holy Spirit.
- Chapter 5: Disciplined by Grace
- “We are performance-oriented by nature, and our culture, and
sometimes our upbringing reinforces this legalistic mindset. ... We carry this same type of thinking into our relationship with
God. So whether it is our response to God’s discipline of us or
our practice of those spiritual disciplines that are so good and
helpful, we tend to think it is the ‘law’ of God rather than the grace
of God that disciplines us. ... If we fail to teach that
discipline is by grace, people will assume, as I did, that it is by
performance. That is why we must not put the gospel on the shelf
once a person becomes a new believer.” (79)
- “The grace that brings salvation to us also disciplines
us. It does not do the one without the other. That is, God
never saves people and leaves them alone to continue in their
immaturity and sinful lifestyle.” (80) Thus we can be
encouraged that God is in charge of our spiritual growth, but we also
need to realize that a lack of spiritual growth suggests lack of
salvation.
- Ungodliness is not just wickedness, but a lack of regard for
God in all areas of our life. Example: a book of ancient
history which never mention any Biblical figure, evidencing a lack of
regard for God.
- We need to not only refrain from doing the “don’ts”, but we
need to do the “do’s”. The former without the latter leads to
hardness and self-righteousness; the latter without the former
leads to decay of morals.
- Believers need to live exemplary lives so that no one can twist
anything bad against God.
- Example: “There are three attitudes we can have toward
money and possessions:
· ‘What’s
yours is mine; I will take it.’
· ‘What’s
mine is mine; I will keep it.’
· ‘What’s
mine is God’s; I will share it.’
The first attitude is that of the thief. The second is that of
the typical person, including, sad to say, many Christians. The
third attitude is the one each of us should seek to put on. It is
not enough not to steal; we must also learn to share.” (88)
- “I knew nothing of God’s grace in enabling me to live the
Christian life. I thought it was all by sheer grit and
willpower. And just as importantly, I understood little of His
forgiving grace through the blood of Christ. So I felt both
guilty and helpless—guilty because of recurring sin patterns in my
life and helpless to do anything about them.” (89)
- “What does it mean that God administers His discipline in the
realm of grace? It means that all His teaching, training, and
discipline are administered in love and for our spiritual
welfare. It means that God is never angry with us, though He is
often grieved at our sins. It means He does not condemn us or
count our sins against us. All that He does in us and to us is
done on the basis of unmerited favor.” (90)
- “‘Run, John [Bunyan], run. The commands,
But gives neither feet nor hands.
Better news the gospel brings;
It bids me fly and gives me wings.’ (90)
- Chapter 6: Transformed Into His Likeness
- “Again, I am concerned that there are thousands of professing
Christians who think that they have been justified, who think their
sins are forgiven and that they are on their way to Heaven, who show no
evidence of the regenerating words of the Holy Spirit in their
lives. I fear for them that they will one day hear those awful
words from the lips of Christ, ‘I never knew you. Away from me,
you evildoers!’ (Matthew 7:23) Lest I be misunderstood at
this point, let me say emphatically that the solution for these people
is not to change their conduct so that they might see some evidence of
regeneration. The solution is to come to Jesus, renouncing any
confidence in their own goodness, confessing themselves to be sinners
in the sight of God, and trusting entirely in His atoning work.” (96)
- “Jesus did not just act
righteously, He loved
righteousness.” (98-99)
- “Jesus’ entire goal in His earthly life was to do the will of
His Father”, and that he delighted
to do it. (99)
- Sanctification is a process. We will become more and more
aware of sin in our life as God shows us what holiness is.
- God/Holy Spirit is the one who changes us: “I can to some
degree change my conduct, but only He can change my heart.” (104) Furthermore, although we may know some of what He is doing
in our lives, in “the words of John Murray, ‘we must not suppose that
the measure of our understanding or experience is the measure of the
Spirit’s working.’” (105)
- “Beholding the glory of the Lord is one means the Spirit uses
to transform us” (106)
- “To the degree that we feel we are on a legal or performance
relationship with God, to that degree our progress in sanctification is
impeded. A legal mode of thinking gives indwelling sin an
advantage, because nothing cuts the nerve of the desire to pursue
holiness as much as a sense of guilt. On the contrary, nothing so
motivates us to deal with sin in our lives as does the understanding
and the application of the two truths that our sins are forgiven and
the dominion of sin is broken because of our union with Christ.
Robert Haldane, in his commentary on Romans, quotes from a
previous writer identified only as ‘Mr. Romaine,’ who said, ‘No sin can
be crucified either in heart or life, unless it be first pardoned in
conscience; because there will be want of faith to receive the
strength of Jesus, by whom alone it can be crucified. If it be
not mortified [put to death] in its guilt, it cannot be subdued in its
power.’” (108)
- Chapter 7: Obeying the Great Commandment
- ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your
soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest
commandment.’ (Matt 22:36-40) What does loving God mean?
- Obedience: we are to observe, keep, and obey His
commands. (Deut 6:1-5)
- Meditate on key passages, write post-it notes, etc.
- “My observation is that most of us who are believers practice
what I call a ‘cruise-control’ approach to obedience. ... we
press the accelerator pedal of obedience until we have brought our
behavior up to a certain level or ‘speed.’ The level of obedience
is most often determined by the behavior standard of other Christians
around us. We don’t want to lag behind them because we want to be
as spiritual as they are. ... Once we have arrived at this
comfortable level of obedience, we push the ‘cruise-control’ button in
our hearts, ease back, and relax. Our particular Christian
culture then takes over and keeps us going at the accepted level of
conduct. We don’t have to watch the speed-limit signs in God’s
Word, and we certainly don’t have to experience the fatigue that comes
with seeking to obey Him with all our heart, soul, and mind.” (116) “I wasn’t seeking to obey God’s law with all my heart and
soul and mind. Instead I had settled into a comfortable routine,
in which there were no major vices, but neither was there an all-out
effort to obey God in every area of life, especially in interpersonal
relationships.” (118)
- Race-car drivers, by contrast, do everything to eke out extra
performance.
- “You may sing with reverent zest or great emotional fervor,
but your worship is only as pleasing to God as the obedience that
accompanies it.” We should enjoy God (as the Shorter Westminster
Catechism states), but obedience is more important. (118)
- Love is a motive. We should obey because we love God, not
because we fear him (e.g. tithe so that He won’t punish us
financially), not for self-control (pride), not because we want
something from God (e.g. praying while kneeling instead sitting down
because it’s “holier” and thus more likely to be answered).
- “Love for God, then is the only acceptable motive for obedience
to Him.” (119)
- We grow in love by coming back to the cross; ‘He who has
been forgiven little loves little.’ (Luke 7:47)
- “Without faith it is impossible to please God (Hebrews 11:6),
and as we have seen, without love it is impossible to please God. But this love arises in our hearts only as we by faith lay hold of the
great truths of the gospel. To do this, our faith must be
constantly nourished by feeding on the gospel.” (124)
- “‘The greatest sorrow and burden you can lay on the Father, the
greatest unkindness you can do to him is not believe that he loves
you.’” (124, quoted from John Owen)
- “To the degree that we live with an abiding sense of His love
for us in Christ, to that degree we will love God with all our heart
and soul and mind.” (125)
- Chapter 8: Dependent Discipline
- The spiritual life is composed of two equally important
areas: dependence on God and disciplines.
- There is a prevalent camp (the Bridges subscribed to for a
while) that we can only rely on God to change us. But this is not
Biblical
- Example of farmers: farmers must plant, water, etc.,
but must rely on God to grow the plants. Failure of either will
not work
- Likewise Nehemiah both prayed and posted guards when a threat
appeared
- Paul learned to be
content in all things; he didn’t just receive it all at once from
God
- A discipline of prayer can help us grow in dependence on God
- Need both planned prayers and spontaneous prayers when the
need arises
- Chapter 9: The Discipline of Commitment
- “When we commit ourselves to the pursuit of holiness, we need
to ensure that our commitment is actually to God, not simply to a holy
lifestyle or a set of moral values. The people of my parent’s
[sic] generation [born in the early 1900s] were generally honest,
chaste, sober, and thrifty. They were committed to those values,
but they were not necessarily committed to God. Many of them were
outstanding moralists and even church people, but they were not
committed to God. They
were committed to their values, not to God.” (146)
- “We should not seek holiness in order to feel good about
ourselves, or to blend in with our Christian peer group, or to avoid
the sense of shame and guilt that follows the committing of persistent
sin in our lives. Far too often our concern with sin arises from
how it makes us feel. ... I realized that sinful habits make us feel
guilty and defeated. The absence of Christlike character usually
doesn’t have a similar effect on us, so there is less motivation to
seek change in our lives.” (147)
- "We must make it our aim not
to sin", although we will not actually achieve this. (148) We need to commit to obedience, and renew our commitment
frequently.
- “Sin has a tendency to exert an ever-increasing power on us if
it is not resisted on every occasion. ... It does not
matter whether the sin to which we are tempted is seemingly small or
large. The principle we are looking at—that saying yes to any
temptation weakens our commitment to resist sin—works in either
case.” (151)
- “If we want to be like Christ in His character, we must commit
ourselves to putting on His virtues. It is not enough to stop
cheating on our income tax returns; we must also learn to share
with those in need. ...” (151) We need to commit not only
to not sinning, but to put on Christlikeness.
- It is helpful to commit to pursuing holiness in areas of our
life where we are particularly vulnerable.
- “People will help you compromise your integrity if you have not
already made a commitment to be absolutely honest in your business
dealings.” (155)
- “So an all-out, unreserved, nothing-held-back commitment to the
pursuit of holiness may be exhausting, but it will not be oppressive if
it is grounded in grace. But to be grounded in grace, it must be
continually referred back to the gospel. So don’t just preach the
gospel to yourself every day merely to experience the cleansing of your
conscience. You certainly need to do so for that reason. But as you do so, reaffirm, as a response of love and gratitude to
God, your commitment to Him. And do so in reliance on His Spirit
that by His grace He will enable you to carry out your
commitment.” (160)
- Make a list of the specific areas of temptation that you need
to make commitments in. Do it now.
- Chapter 10: The Discipline of Convictions
- “It seems that in many evangelical circles we do have morality
by consensus. We may not be doing what is right in our own eyes,
as society around us is doing, but neither are we living according to
biblical standards. Instead we live according to the standard of
conduct of Christians around us. We not only have morality by
consensus; we have sanctification by consensus. We expect
to become holy by osmosis, by the absorption of the ethical values of
our Christian peer group. If we are going to make progress in the
pursuit of holiness, we must aim to live according to the precepts of
Scripture—not according to the culture, even Christian culture, around
us.” (162)
- We need to develop “Bible-based convictions.” “A
conviction is a determinative belief: something you believe so
strongly that it affects the way you live. Someone has observed
that a belief is what you hold, but a conviction is what holds
you.” (162-3)
- “Our convictions and values will come from society around us
(the world), or they will come as our minds are renewed by the Word of
God. There is no third option.” (163)
- “All of us who are believers are somewhere on [a] continuum,
partially influenced by sinful society and partially influenced by the
Word of God. The more we are influenced by society, the more we
move toward the left end of the continuum [sinful society end]. The more we are influenced by the Word of God, the more we move to the
right [Word of God end]. What determines whether we are moving to
the left or to the right? The psalmist [of Psalm 1] gives us the
answer: our attitude toward the Word of God and the time we spend
thinking about it. Nothing
else will determine where you are on that continuum.” (164-5)
- The person influence by the Word of God: delights in
God’s laws and His Word, meditates on it consistently and habitually,
examines his life to see how well it conforms to God’s principles.
- “We should not think of the concept of ‘continually’ as meaning
every moment. Rather we should think in terms of consistently and
habitually. What does your mind turn to when it is free to turn
to anything? ... Thinking is our most constant
activity. Our thoughts are our constant occupation. We are
never without them. But we can choose the direction and content
of those thoughts.” (166)
- “One thing we can be sure of: If we do not actively seek to come under the
influence of God’s Word, we will
come under the influence of sinful society around us. The impact
of our culture ... is simply too strong and pervasive for us to not be
influenced by it.” (166-7)
- Paul commands us to be transformed. Since we cannot
transform ourselves, we must “bring [ourselves] under the transforming
influence of the Word of God.” (168)
- We need to read scripture not for information, or to affirm our
views, but asking the Holy Spirit to teach us.
- We need to read scripture with discipline
- “The question we must ask ourselves is this: What value
do we place upon the Word of God? Do we search it [with the same
intensity] as if we were seeking for hidden treasures, or do we read it
and study it only because we know it is something we should do?
- We need to be dependent on God for teaching. This
dependence is a deep, desperate dependence.
- (Personal note by this web site author): I recently had
an experience illustrating this. I was rather depressed with how
all the things I wanted out of life haven’t come to pass, and I sat
down for my evening quiet time. Frustrated by not having any idea
what part of the Bible to read and having had little life-changing
Bible reading recently, I had this sort of deep desperation Bridges
talks about and prayed “God, I know that your words of life are in here
somewhere. I need them. Please show them to me.” Immediately I heard the words “Ruth”. It was in my own-thought
voice, but because I had been assuming the New Testament and because I
like Ruth anyway, I read it. That was, indeed God speaking,
because in Ruth’s devotion to Naomi I saw a reflection of God’s love
and devotion (in a manner of speaking) to me, which was an area I have
been dealing with recently. Also, I realized that Naomi said the
same sort of things I was saying, and God worked everything out for
her, even though she was convinced that she was done for. An
example of desperate dependence and listening prayer.)
- Treasure God’s Words: memorize them
- Memorize scriptures to combat the temptations listed as a
result of the previous chapter
- “One of the banes of present-day evangelical Christianity is
the way we sit every week under the teaching of God’s Word, or even
have private devotions and perhaps participate in a Bible study group,
without a serious intent to obey the truth we learn. ... Our
tendency seems to be to equate knowledge of the truth, and even
agreement with it, with obedience to it. James said that when we
do this we deceive ourselves (James 1:22). This is especially
true when we focus on the more scandalous sins ‘out there’ in society
to the neglect of the more ‘refined’ sins we commit.” (176-7)
- We develop Bible-based commitments “when we begin to apply the
teachings of Scripture to real-life situations.” (177)
- “What does happen if we stumble or fall in the practice of
these disciplines? First of all, God does not love us any
less. ... Our progress in the pursuit of holiness, however,
is conditioned on our
practice of
the disciplines God has given us. It is true that we are
transformed more and more into the likeness of Christ by the Holy
Spirit. It is also true, however, that one of the chief means—in
fact, probably the chief
means—He uses is the renewing of our minds.” (179)
- Chapter 11: The Discipline of Choices
- In Eph 4:25-32 Paul shows a contrast of choices: the
choice to tell the truth or to lie; “the choice to deal with
anger or let it smolder ...” (183)
- “Whereas righteousness in this verse refers to our conduct,
holiness refers to our character. So it is through righteous actions that we
develop holy character.” (184) Each choice trains us
to be more godly or more sinful (which is why sin leads to
ever-increasing wickedness)
- “Dawson Trotman, founder of the The Navigators, used to say,
‘You are going to be what you are now becoming.’ And what you are
now becoming is dependent on the choices you make. So commit
yourself to making the right choices and then look to the Holy Spirit
to work in you ‘to will and to act’ (Philippians 2:13) in carrying out
that commitment.” (188)
- “To mortify a sin means to subdue
it, to deprive it of its power,
to break the habit pattern we have developed of continually giving in
to the temptation to that particular sin. The goal of mortification is to weaken the habits of sin so that
we do make the right choices. Mortification involves dealing with
all known sin in one’s life. Without a purpose to obey all of
God’s Word, isolated attempts to mortify a particular sin are of no
avail.” (191)
- “To mortify a sin we must focus on its true nature. So
often we are troubled with a persistent sin only because it disturbs our peace
and makes us feel guilty. We need to focus on it as an act of
rebellion against God.” (192) “Think of an unusually persistent
sin in your life—-perhaps some secret lust that lies in your heart
that only you know about. You say you cannot overcome it. Why
not? Is it because you exalt your secret desire above the will of
God? If we are to succeed in putting sin to death, we must
realize that the sin we are dealing with is none other than a continual
exalting of our desire over God’s known will.” (193)
- “We must realize that in putting sin to death we are saying no
to our own desires.” (193)
- It is helpful to have someone to help us pursue holiness by
encouraging and admonishing us.
- “‘It is forgiveness that sets a man working for God. He
does not work in order to be forgiven, but because he has been
forgiven, and the consciousness of his sin being pardoned makes him
long more for its entire removal than ever he did before. ... An unforgiven man cannot work. He has not the will, nor
the power, nor the liberty. He is in chains. ... A
forgiven man is the true worker, the true Lawkeeper. He can, he
will, he must work for God. He has come into contact with that
part of God’s character which warms his cold heart.’” (200,
quoting from Horatius Bonar)
- Chapter 12: The Discipline of Watching
- We need to watch out for (and pray against) temptation, or we
are likely to succumb to it.
- Sources of temptation
- The world: “characterized by the subtle and relentless
pressure it brings to bear upon us to conform to its values and
practices.” (203)
- “It is my perception that Christians are no more than five
to ten years behind the world in embracing most sinful practices” (203)
- The Devil: the ultimate coordinator of temptations from
the world, but will also try to blindside us with direct attacks when
we are off guard.
- The flesh: our sinful nature. It our largest
source of temptation, because it is tuned in to, searching for,
temptations that it can express itself through.
- Know your areas of weakness and decide on the best way to
guard those areas.
- Watch for the little things: “‘little sins, little
inconsistencies, little follies, little indiscretions and imprudences,
little foibles, little indulgences of self and of the flesh, ...’”
(209, quoting Bonar) “‘He that despises little things shall fall
little by little’” (209, quote unknown)
- Do not try to push the edges of temptation because of God’s
grace
- “1) Is it beneficial? Does it promote my spiritual
life?
2) Is it a practice that over time will tend to master me? Will it stimulate a desire that will be difficult to control?
3) Is it constructive? Will it promote the spiritual
wellbeing of other believers if they engage in this practice that is
permissible for me?” (213)
- Two defenses: meditation of God’s Word, and prayer
that we ‘are not led into temptation [i.e. “God will not providentially
(sic) bring us into the way
of temptation” (214)] but deliver us from the evil one’ (Matt
6:13).
- Chapter 13: The Discipline of Adversity
- God always treats us with love (because Jesus paid for our
penalty). Furthermore, adversity comes from God. Thus his
discipline is not divine wrath, but adversity to strengthen our
character. “‘He has regard, in all [His actions], to our good
here, to make us partakers of His holiness, and to our glory hereafter,
to make us partakes of His glory.’” (221, quoting Samuel Bolton)
- Thus we should neither make light of it (i.e. thinking that it
is just Chance, or that it is merely to be endured), nor lose heart
(thinking that God is angry with us). (Heb 12:5-6)
- “Endure all hardship
as discipline.” (224) It is not necessarily connected with
a particular sin, and we probably won’t know its purpose. But it
will develop Spiritual fruit through actual practice. “The only
way Christlike character is developed is in the crucible of real-life
experience.” (224)
- Don’t get mad at God for hardships, and accept them with
submission and trust that He has our good in mind. Neither should
we try to pretend that it doesn’t exist. (Of course, we can still
pray that the hardship would end or attempt to mitigate it, but we need
to do it with the attitude of submission, not with an “I will...”)
- “‘The person who accepts discipline at the hand of God as
something designed by his heavenly Father for his good will cease to
feel resentful and rebellious; he has “calmed and quieted” his
soul [Psalm 131:2], which thus provides fertile soil for the
cultivation of a righteous life, responsive to the will of God.’” (229,
F. F. Bruce)
- We need to preach the gospel to ourselves every day with regard
to adversity so that we realize that God loves us (through Jesus’
death) and that hardships are not punishment, but training. Thus
we will not ask why this hardship happened (that is, what did I do
wrong), but see it as an opportunity for our character to become more
like God’s.